Marriage is the will of two to create a higher one beyond themselves; only those who are victorious, self-commanding, and ‘built four-square’ should will a child and marriage.
By Friedrich Nietzsche, from Thus Spoke Zarathustra
Key Arguments
- He tests the motive: marriage and child-wish must come from victory and freedom, not from beastly need, isolation, or inner discord.
- Creation must be upward, not merely onward: propagate not only continuity but height.
- One must first be formed and firm (‘four-square in body and soul’) before building beyond oneself.
- Marriage is defined teleologically as a joint creative act producing something ‘more’ than the pair.
- The worthy marriage expresses sovereign agency: ‘a first movement, a self-propelling wheel—a creator shall you create.’
Source Quotes
You are young and wish for a child and marriage. But I ask you now: are you a human being with the to wish for a child? Are you the victor, the self-compeller, commander of the senses, master of your virtues?
But I ask you now: are you a human being with the to wish for a child? Are you the victor, the self-compeller, commander of the senses, master of your virtues? Thus I ask you.
Or discord with yourself? I would that your victory and your freedom might yearn for a child. Living monuments shall you build to your victory and your liberation.
Living monuments shall you build to your victory and your liberation. Over and beyond yourself shall you build. But first you must be built yourself, four-square in body and soul. Not only onward shall you propagate yourself, but upward!
But first you must be built yourself, four-square in body and soul. Not only onward shall you propagate yourself, but upward! May the garden of marriage help you to do so!
May the garden of marriage help you to do so! A higher body shall you create, a first movement, a self-propelling wheel—a creator shall you create. Marriage: thus I call the will of two to create the one that is more than those who created it.
A higher body shall you create, a first movement, a self-propelling wheel—a creator shall you create. Marriage: thus I call the will of two to create the one that is more than those who created it. Reverence for each other I call marriage, as for the willers of such a will.
Key Concepts
- are you a human being with the to wish for a child?
- Are you the victor, the self-compeller, commander of the senses, master of your virtues?
- I would that your victory and your freedom might yearn for a child.
- Over and beyond yourself shall you build. But first you must be built yourself, four-square in body and soul.
- Not only onward shall you propagate yourself, but upward!
- A higher body shall you create, a first movement, a self-propelling wheel—a creator shall you create.
- Marriage: thus I call the will of two to create the one that is more than those who created it.
Context
Opening interrogation of a ‘young’ listener’s desire for child and marriage; Zarathustra probes motives and lays a creator-centered criterion for marriage.
Perspectives
- Nietzsche
- Approves the redefinition of marriage as a creative project of enhancement (will to power), not a moral-contractual or reproductive convention; stresses rank and self-mastery as preconditions, consistent with creator-ethics.
- Zarathustra
- Sets a high bar: only the self-legislating victor should marry; marriage is a workshop for upward creation, not consolation or escape.